Help is not a hero in chat
A friend got a scam message. Someone wants a password from them. Or cyberbullying. Your reflex: write into the group “don’t be stupid”. That does not help. A method helps:
- Stop them — between four eyes: “Do not click. 发送 me a screenshot. We go to an adult.”
- Screenshot — for a parent or a teacher, not for a meme
- An adult — their parent, your parent, a teacher — according to how serious it is
You are not IT support for the whole day. You are a bridge. If you do not know, tell a parent: a friend needs help, I do not know what next.
A sentence that works: “Wait. Do not click anything. I will show mum / a teacher. It is not telling on someone. It is saving an account.”
According to the situation
A scam (rush, a password, a code):
Do not click. Do not read a code. Screenshot. A parent or a teacher.
Cyberbullying:
Screenshot. Do not argue. Go together to a teacher. 116 111, when they are afraid.
A forgotten password:
A parent or school. Not a “reset” from a weird mail.
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Practise a sentence for a friend with a scam.
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Practise a sentence for a parent: Friend [name] got [X]. They have a screenshot. What should we do?
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Write into an Adviser notebook: Help a friend = stop, screenshot, an adult.
What to say at home
To a parent:
“When a friend needs help with a scam or bullying, I will come to you. Do you know?”
To a friend:
“It is not shame. Shame is sending a password. We go to an adult.”
Do not use help as a reason to search a friend’s phone “because I am helping”. Help = a method and an adult. Not a spy.
Now you 💪
Practise two sentences out loud — to a friend and a parent.
Agree with a parent: when a friend in trouble arrives, what will we do? One sentence is enough.
Check: I know the help method. Sentences practised. A parent knows you can come with a friend.
What to take from this lesson
- Help = stop, screenshot, an adult.
- Not a hero in chat. Not telling on someone — protection.
- A scam vs. bullying — the same bridge, maybe a different adult.
- A parent knows you can come.
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